Like really, I'm miserable at understanding an email's tone. And sometimes, I have a hard time even gauging my tone in MY OWN emails. (I'm a sarcastic lady, and that sometimes does NOT travel well through those 5G speeds. Oop.)
One tool that has GREATLY helped my "attitude problem" is a lovely little tool on Goblin.Tools.
Oh, you don't know Goblin Tools? Why, let me introduce you! Goblin Tools is an AI website specifically geared toward the neuro-spicy crowd, though I would argue they are just as helpful for my neuro-typical friends as well. The tools are plentiful and include a text formalizer, a very detailed list maker, and even a recipe builder based on what you have in your fridge, but the Judge is probably my favorite tool.
The Judge tool takes text and judges its tone. Plus, it will help you write an appropriate response. Be ready to no longer question vague or curt emails from your admin or team! (Or yourself!)
P.S. They are building out Teacher Tools as well! As of this article, they are not yet available, but check back soon!